So The Dearly Beloved is working over night, The Olders are both at the Other Mommy's house for a sleep over and they're all going to see Tangled tomorrow, so it's just Willie and I at home tonight. The Olders are out of school for 25 straight days. TWENTY FIVE days people. They got out Friday and by Sunday they were driving The Beloved and I batsh*t with their bickering. And today I am free of them! I took Willie and I out shopping in the pouring rain, just because I could get out without the gaggling goobers in tow, trying to kill each other from the front door, in the van, in the store, wherever we wound up next and back home to the front door again. I even took Willie and I out to a sit down dinner in a fancy restaurant that no one else likes but me. The meal was sumptuous and Willie was the perfect gentlemanly dinner companion. I'd had this gift card from Carinos for a few months...but I'm the only one who likes their food! And I'm so blue and lonely that I'm sitting here crying over stupid sentimental movies and scooping up Kleenex to shovel away the snot running down my face. What is wrong with this picture?
My plan is to complete yet another step in the process of taking back our bedroom from all the crap that winds up in there when company comes or when there's simply no where else to put it, (Remember I lost our spare room late last year!) and then sort out and The Little's gifts to make sure there's a fairly equal, or at least in obvious but unequal, distribution between wrapped-under-the-tree and stocking presents from Santa between the two Olders. I'd planned on giving Willie a Baby Einstein around the world discovery center for his big Santa gift...until I realized that The Middle was with me when I bought it, and if I actually put it out from Santa, the jig will be up. I'm not ready for them to lose that magic. It's such a sacred part of childhood. So...plan B. Very few of Willie's gifts will be wrapped under the tree. Ummmm, First off, we're just going to have to unwrap them anyway. B.) He loves to eat wrapping paper, and 3.) I have no #3, Okay, I just wanted to make your eyeballs stumble over mixing up my list points because I can't figure out how to do bullet points. Humor me. I'm sad and lonely and have snot running down my face from crying like a baby.
Where was I going with this? Oh yeah, as soon as Pillie-Pie wakes up I'm going to vacuum our bedroom. Then I'm going to scrape off the dining room table. Then I'm going to haul out what little loot I've managed to stash away in at least three, no five, places throughout the house and sort the goodies. If the table hasn't realized that it's now free and run off somewhere, I'll start wrapping gifts! That will cheer me up! I have an unbeatable system for wrapping gifts. All of The Girlie's gifts are in double sided purple/pink (Christmas) wrapping paper. All of The Pod's are in double sided blue. Willie's are in double sided red. Those huge 90 pound rolls you get at Costco! We're color coded. No tags to fall off, thereby eliminating the gift mix up! And I'm pretty sure those rolls will last until they are all in college! No kidding...they're huge 90 pound rolls!
So thanks for listening to me whine. I'm better now!
Or we could just go directly to plan C, which would include Jack waking with a whimpering cry and a fever of 103.2! Off to the ER. I gave him some ibuprofen and we left home with Jack naked save for a diaper in his car seat at 2:00 am. The ER was mercifully empty tonight and we left there at 4:08 am, with a temp of 98.0 and Jack once again wearing clothing, with antibiotics and a diagnosis of a viral upper respiratory infection, ears and throat fine, antibiotics for prophylaxis due to his cardiac issues! Which only proves once again that our ER, for now at least, does not suck. The doc who treated Jack was looking at me as if we'd been neighbors at some point in our lives. I informed her that my daughter was treated by her recently and she said excitedly "Oh! The basketball! How is she?" Points for her that she remembered! And for the record, in case you're wondering...Jack isn't sick because we were out in the cold. Colds and flu are not caused by being cold, washing your hair and going out, or going to bed with wet hair. They are caused by bacteria and viruses...things you are likely to catch indoors in warm environs. I'm just sayin'...Post Script Thursday, December 23rd: The Girlie busted into our bedroom, in a panic, this evening asking, "Mom? Can babies...well...are babies...able to be bad?
Can babies be bad? Is that possible? They can't,
can they?" This serious concern was delivered complete with a serious face, furrowed brow, forward posture and many gesticulations while she tried to convey her worry in words.
No, I tell her,
I don't think that babies can be bad. Why? "Well, we have a problem then!" clearly she's upset, all but shouting at me, with more arm flapping to emphasize the enormity of the problem. "William only has three presents! Me and $&%@# have five each! Under the tree! Go look! I don't understand why, if babies can't be bad. Why doesn't William has as many presents as me and $&%@# do?" So I tell her simply that we have so little money this year to buy presents, and that Willie just had a birthday a month ago and got tons of presents. She is not satisfied with this explanation and suggests that maybe I should take back one of her presents and buy something for her baby brother.
Aaaaawwww! and
Dang it! In a flash of brilliance, if I do say so myself, I tell her to go check and see who has the biggest present...from the front room, hollered all the way across the house..."Mom! Are William's presents wrapped in the red paper?"
Yes I say in a normal speaking voice because the baby monitor is right where she's standing. "The biggest present is wrapped in red! Is that William's?"
Yes, I say into the monitor again. So once back in our bedroom, she informs me again that William has the biggest present.
Well, that kinda makes up for having fewer, doesn't it? She's still unsure so I insist that William is young and that he won't know or care that he got fewer gifts than his siblings. And then she had to say it. "Well, maybe Santa's planning on bringing him something really special!" and off she goes, happy as can be. Dang it! Santa most certainly is not going to leave some whopping gift in Jack's stocking. The coffers are empty! In fact, I had to sell the coffers on eBay to buy dog food! Danged kid. She has a huge heart. Volunteered to have one of her presents returned to provide more for her baby brother. Hopefully, she'll be too enrapt Christmas morning to notice that Santa didn't leave Jack a puppy or a pony. My Girlie rocks!
Gotta have a cheesy grin in the mix!
And for the record...
Leaning forward to turn the pages...
...and then back upright on his own!
Jack sat with Anna, his EI gal, for at least six minutes before falling over! Most times he was able to correct his own posture and stay upright, even leaning forward to turn pages and then sit back up tall! His first sit was the longest, but he had several more three minutes sits before falling all the way over! Yeah Jack!
Left hand off the floor...
Right hand off the floor...
The kid can't crawl, but this he can do! Head stands with his arms tucked to his chest...WHY? I blame his Father because he's forever giving in to Jack's love of being upside down.
And here's The Face!
LOVE this picture!
Very little cookie was actually consumed...pretty much just one little chocolate smear on his tongue...but he sure had fun with it!
